Adult Games and Novelties:

The Guide To Fun and Pleasure

Whoever said games were reserved for children or the sports field?

Games and novelties are a great way for adults to bond and enjoy some sexy fun with partners or friends, and there’s absolutely nothing childish about the kind of play we’re talking about!

Couples

Nowadays, sex therapists generally advise that the best way to maintain a long, loving and trusting relationship with a partner is to be truly free to express your preferences, fantasies and needs. Settling for missionary sex once a week is unlikely to satisfy the person who likes daily anal sex in outdoor locations, is it now? While we’re not suggesting you trawl the internet to dig up the weirdest, most wonderful sexual craze to spring upon your partner, there is absolutely no harm in experimenting with something new to put that spark of passion back into a stale relationship (or maybe one that’s just gone a bit lukewarm!) In fact research has shown that couples who safely act out their fantasies with their partners are up to nine times more likely to have healthy and rewarding relationships and are less likely to commit infidelity in order to fulfil repressed sexual desires. Adult games and novelties are an excellent way in which to enhance your sex life and can bring a new level of creativity and eroticism into the bedroom (or wherever else you may choose to indulge your favourite fantasy).

Erotic clothing is an obvious choice for couples looking to practice sexual role-play, but first you have to ascertain exactly what it is what turns you and your partner on, and the practicalities of incorporating your fantasies into your sex-life. Are they compatible, meaning both persons can act out their own specific fantasies at the same time? Whilst this might be possible, if say you like pirates and your partner wants to have his wicked way with a French maid, it is not always so, and you may find it necessary to take turns to act out any fantasies which just do not work together (imagine if you both want to play submissive roles—who’s gonna get the party started?!) Discuss your fantasies with one another at a time when you are both at your most comfortable and relaxed (maybe during foreplay, or after sex, when you are feeling closest to your partner and in a state of elevated arousal which will allow your naughty thoughts to flow freely). Try to remain uncritical or judgmental about your partner’s confessions about fantasies or desires; if he or she senses you disapprove of their personal preferences this will cause inhibition, and in some cases, shame and regret. Encourage open talk and do not shy away from explicitly sexual words—some people find dirty talk an incredible turn on, and you shouldn’t feel ashamed to say words like ‘cock’ or ‘pussy’ with your partner. You’re in the bedroom, not the boardroom, after all!

Selecting an erotic outfit to compliment your sexual fantasies will add realism and credibility to your role-play. Perhaps you like a man in uniform? A naughty nurse? It doesn’t stop there—out full range of costumes, apparel & shoes and bondage/fetish accessories boast more kinky fashion than you dare imagine!

Perhaps you want to take your role-play out of the bedroom? Well there’s always the option of a dirty weekend away in a hotel, but unfortunately not everyone’s budget or timetable will stretch to this luxury. However that doesn’t mean you can’t extend your games to other locations. Have you ever considered what it would be like to just meet a stranger and, without any sense of danger or risk, take them home for sex? No, stop! Don’t go out looking for a stranger who wants a one-night-stand! The solution is much more simple and healthy for your relationship. Get your partner to arrange to meet you in a bar or other public place; one of you should be there early, waiting for the other, but don’t ruin it with text messages and phone calls, or the element of spontaneity and realism will be lost completely. Surprise your partner by turning up in an outfit (a pre-arranged one if there is a specific request) or something you know will get him or her excited upon seeing you. A wig is absolutely great for disguise and adoption of a new persona. Approach them in the bar and enact a dialogue as if you are meeting them for the very first time. Create a whole new identity—are you an undercover cop? An off-duty porn-star? Are you, indeed happily-married, but sneaking out after dark to pick up a stranger in a seedy club? Let your imagination run wild, and keep up the pretence that you really are that character throughout—say things you are usually too shy to say and do things you might otherwise hesitate over. Don’t waste time on small-talk or social niceties; get down to business and seduce your partner into bed in a new and thrilling way!

Adult games are another brilliant way to bring fun and excitement into your relationship. Some are suited to be used whilst enjoying alcohol, whilst others are simply based around kinky dares and challenges. Forget Scrabble or Trivial Pursuit; with our choice of sexy adult games, everyone’s a winner—try Consenting Adults, a game of temptation which allows you to test the boundaries of your partner’s inhibitions; or the sensuous multi-purpose French Kiss Massage Kit and Game, for a intimate night-in. Perhaps you want to incorporate a bit of health and fitness into your bedroom routine? Did you really think calorie-burning and toning only belong in the gym? Think again! The latest fitness phenomenon, both on the celebrity circuit and in ordinary homes everywhere, is pole dancing! Get fit and excite your partner with your sexy new skills all at the same time with the Exotic X-Pole Dance Apparatus kit, which is easily assembled and is suitable for all levels of expertise. Perhaps you are a lady who wants to recreate those tantalising moves in the privacy of your own bedroom? Or a gentleman who wants to experience that lap-dance club thrill without having to pay for it? Well now you can, and girls, don’t blame us when you get the firmest, lithest body imaginable!

Parties

What better time to indulge in a little fun and games than on a lucky hen or buck’s last night of freedom? Nowadays bachelor/bachelorette parties, as they are sometimes known, as big business and many themed games, novelties and accessories are available to bring inspiration and humour to your big night. Make sure you plan in advance and ascertain the number of persons you are inviting; this way you can ensure you have the correct amount of items, such as costumes, for the entire group. Many people like to customise or specially print T-shirts to create a sense of unity within their party, particularly if going out on the town, but perhaps some of our great range of outfits and costumes might be more suited to those wanting to really make an impact. Choose a theme and work around your central idea when organising all aspects of your hen/bucks night—right down to the type of food and drink; decor and location to give make it a truly unforgettable experience. Typically, games involving forfeits and dares are played at bachelor(ette) parties, and preparing in advance and purchasing a good quality adult game such as those featured on our website is advisable. Play a game in the preliminary stages of the party, to break the ice, stimulate conversation and forge a bond between your group. There’s nothing like a bit of intimate confession and laughter to warm things up a bit.

Gifts

Sexy novelty items make excellent gifts for persons with a saucy sense of humour. If it’s a birthday you’re celebrating, so some other occasion where it seems appropriate to provide your guests with cake, don’t just rely on a boring old shop-bought one—not when you could have a delicious pair of baked breasts, made using the Boobie Cake Pan! That got your juices flowing nicely? Our edible gift ideas don’t stop there. Why not invest in some edible underwear for yourself or your beloved, as part of a naughty birthday or anniversary treat you can both benefit from? Available for men and women, in a range of delicious aphrodisiac flavours (strawberries and champagne, anyone?) which will tantalise your taste-buds; our sweet treats will have you racing straight to the bedroom for dessert.  Alternatively, a gift box makes a thoughtful a and sophisticated present for that special someone, and you won’t be disappointed by the array of high quality products 30Kisses has to offer the online gift shopper, whether your intended recipient like sexy playthings (we recommend the Everyday Girl or Sophisticated Sista gift boxes) or be a smoker—there’s something to suit everyone.

Remember, if you really can’t make up your mind what to buy for another, there are always our exclusive gift cards, which can be used at our online store.