Anal Sex Guide for Beginners

There are several aspects of a lifestyle that have changed since the past few years – with sex life being just one of them.  While a few years ago, sex and sexual intercourse was just supposed to be carried out as a chore for procreation, today it is carried out for several reasons, either hedonistic or even health reasons. A good sex life has been proved to have enabled a person to live a healthier life. Along with the opening of sex life, there have also been some additions to sexual intercourse, which are considered to be perfect for adding pleasure to the sex life and sexual intercourse. One of them is anal sex.

Anal Sex may be one of the most controversial and hotly debated aspects of sex life ever. While anal sex is considered illegal and even sinful in some countries, religions and communities, one cannot deny that there is a streak of naughtiness and sinful pleasure in anal sex.  In fact, in the case of a homosexual couple, anal sex is the only way that one can derive optimum pleasure from the sexual intercourse and relationship. That said, anal sex is not for everyone – and it is very important that both sex partners talk it out and discuss it before they indulge in anal sex.  Here are some tips for anal sex, which is actually an anal sex guide for beginners.

Fingers First:

While most couples who want to try anal sex would be enthusiastic about it, not many would have an idea of the physical and psychological aspect of it – until they try it. The anal orifice is much different than the vaginal one, and how a person takes to its penetration depends entirely on the person – just like the choke reflex, which changes from person to person. Therefore, because the couple cannot be sure until they have tried it a few times, they should first try penetration with fingers – this will not only prepare the anal orifice for genital penetration, but will also give both sexual partners of what anal sex would actually feel like.  The normal learning curve would be one finger first, which would work well to open up the person to the penetration.

Use a lot of Lubricant:

As previously mentioned, the anal orifice is quite different than the vaginal orifice. During sexual intercourse, a woman’s sexual juices moisten the vaginal orifice, which helps in easier genital penetration. However, the anal orifice has no such attribute of moistening. Therefore, it is very important that a person uses the right amount of lubricant, also known as ‘lube’, before they indulge in sexual intercourse. The lube eases the orifice, and allows both sexual partners to gain optimum pleasure from the sexual intercourse. 30 Kisses Adult Shop has the largest range of quality Anal Lubricants to make sure your anal experiences are as pleasurable as possible. Pjur Analyse Me (30ml) is developed for use in anal intercourse, guaranteeing relaxed pleasure and a terrific all-round anal lubricant to get you started.

Maintain Hygiene:

While anal penetration has its own pleasure, there are also some disadvantages of anal orifice, and one of them is the genital contact of feces. To avoid this, make sure that both partners maintain the right level of hygiene. The best way is to have a thorough bath and shower before the sexual intercourse takes place. Along with physical hygiene, the couple should also maintain proper sexual hygiene. Anal sex is one of the largest reasons for contracting sexually transmitted disease. Do not indulge in anal intercourse with anyone, until you aren’t completely sure that it would be safe and all right to indulge in the said sexual act with them. An Anal Douche is the best way to ensure and maintain hygiene. It is an Easy-to-use cleaning system designed for comfort and simplicity. You can view more products specifically designed for all your Hygiene & Cleaning needs at 30 Kisses Adult Shop.

Exercise:

Anal sex can either be the best type of addition to your sexual life, but you have to make sure that you are physically ready for sexual anal penetration.

Try out various exercises that will make it simpler.

For example, you can try some simple clenching and unclenching exercises, which will help prepare the anal orifice for penetration.

Soft Penetration:

The anal orifice has several nerve endings and sensitive spots, which can send shards of pleasure through the human body if touched or caressed properly. However, one should remember that a woman would not get direct pleasure from anal penetration – at the most, she can get psychological pleasure, or the g spot can be stimulated indirectly through butt play and penetration. Therefore, make sure that the initial penetration is soft. Do not thrust into the orifice till you are perfectly sure that your partner is comfortable with the anal penetration. In fact, the best way to describe the care is ‘to treat the anal orifice like a virginal vaginal orifice’. 

Try Anal Toys:

There are several toys that will facilitate and even make anal sex and anal play possible. Since the anal orifice is quite different than the vaginal orifice, the two types of toys are quite different. For example, the width and length of an anal dildo will be lesser than a vaginal dildo. Also, for people who wish to know how anal intercourse would feel ben-wa balls are a great way not only to work the anal muscles, but also to prepare the person physically as well as psychologically for anal intercourse. If someone is not initially comfortable about feeling flesh on flesh while anal intercourse, try to use latex gloves.  Simply put, the right way to proceed with anal sex is to be carefully and with a lot of thoughtfulness about the partner. An Anal Training Kit is the perfect way Find all the Anal Toys you will ever need and more at 30 Kisses Adult Shop.  

Maintain Trust and Confidence:

Anal sex is not something that is given up by casual sex partners. Having, or agreeing to anal sex means that the couple has a deep understanding and trust built between them. If you wish to have anal sex, and are apprehensive about asking your partner, wait until the right amount of trust and confidence is built between you.

While all of the above tips would help you have a safe, sensual and satisfactory anal intercourse, you should also understand that most aspects of the sexual life of a person depend on the instinct and gut feeling. There are some things that you should go ahead with and some which you should not during sexual intercourse. Try to be a better judge between the two and you just might have the most envious sex life ever.