The Guide to Erotic Massage

Over time, many activities have been added to sexual intercourse and sexual foreplay as a whole. Erotic massage is one of the most popular and important of these activities. Erotic massage is not only a way to enhance the sexual pleasure, but it is also a very good way for you to find out more about your sexual partner’s body and connect with your partner in ways that you have never thought about before.  Whether you are a newbie, or you have had some experience exploring the different types of massages, like tantric massage, exercise massage, etc., this is a complete guide to erotic massage which will surely add some spice to your sex life.

Erotic massage is not just a play act that two grown up carry out. It has several advantages. For one, erotic massage allows the couple to spend more time with each other. Also, the right kind of erotic massage would have the couple have greater sexual pleasure and powerful orgasms. Erotic massage not only emphasis physical pleasure, but it also increases the emotional and mental pleasure.  Other than these advantages, erotic massage also creates a heightened sensitivity and sensuality in the couple.

Have a Lot of time ‘On Your Hands’:

Erotic massage is bound to take a considerable amount of time, and you would be on the safer side if you counted out at least two to three hours for the complete main course – along with the dessert. Remember, erotic massage is not a one way street, and you should give some when you get some – you know what we mean.  In fact, if you do not time the erotic massage, you might end up having to wind up the massage in a jiffy, and that would not be a memorable experience for you as well as your partner.

The Accessories Matter:

You need only some knowledge and your hands to carry out the perfect erotic massage – and then some. Using special massage oil is always suggested, especially the scented ones, as it provides a calming effect to the body and may even work in arousing the more baser instincts of the couple. Who hasn’t been through instances when the scent of a woman actually got to them? It would be a very good idea to invest in some massaging oils, some latex gloves and other incidentary accessories like cotton,  soft silk cloth etc.

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Massage Gels are terrific for creating an erotically heightened feeling of warmth and ecstatic amorous play with your partner.

Massage Creams offer a luxurious, non-sticky formula with the glide of oil and the light absorption of lotion for the perfect balance of slickness and friction.

The Atmosphere Matters:

Set up these three things and you are all set to at least begin your erotic massage adventure on the right step – time, accessories and atmosphere. The atmosphere can be set up anywhere – your living room, your bedroom, but of course the most popular room for erotic massage is the bathroom, for obvious reasons like running water, soap, etc. You should concentrate on pleasing all the four, sight, sound, scent, and touch. Have some romantic music on the side, along with some comfortable type of attire (a black robe still works, or choose from our huge range of lingerie or costumes) and you have got all bases covered at the moment.

Set up the Mood:

Setting up the mood is very important when it comes to erotic massages. Remember, the erotic massage is an activity that more or less exposes the sexual partners to each other like never before. Once the erotic massage is carried out successfully, nobody else would know the erogenous zones of a person’s body, or parts of the body that should be touched, other than the erotic massage partner. It is very necessary, therefore, to have the ambience and atmosphere such that a person is ready to have a new, sensual experience. It helps you have some love and intercourse related furnishings, like a heart shaped soap or pillow, soft and sensuous bathrobes, bath towels, etc. Massage candles are the perfect way to set the mood, not only does the candle produce a warm intimate feeling but once liquefied, the candle transforms into a slow absorption, high-slip massage balm, that nourishes and hydrates the skin. They are available in a range of wonderful scents.

Use Your Hands and Everything:

Erotic massage is not just about touching and massaging the erogenous zones of your partner, it can also be a great stress reliever and even painkiller. Gently touch and feel your partner’s body and pay special attention to the erogenous parts. You can never go wrong with parts like the nape of the neck, the shoulder, the lower back, the buttocks, etc. You can even send some firm grasps down the upper and lower thighs and the upper arms and lower arms. Remember that the right erotic massage is an amalgamation of firm and soft touches, which basically add comfort and pleasure and consists of emotional, physical, sexual, genital and in some cases, even spiritual pleasure.

While the palms are most used during a massage, you can also use your knee, ankle, or even your body part like thigh, stomach etc. to add to the sensual nature of the massage.

Have a Slow Learning Curve:

If you are new to erotic massages, try not to carry out the stronger massage techniques early. Also, try to find out any medical conditions or prior injuries that your partner might have encountered. For example, if your sexual partner has undergone a forearm fracture, it may not be a good idea to perform heavy massage there. Of course, a fractured forearm would require massage, but let’s leave that to the qualified personnel, shall we? 30 Kisses Adult Shop has an impressive range of erotic massage books and erotic massage dvds to assist you on your way to becoming an expert. Erotic Massage: The Touch of Love is an insightful and entertaining read. Erotic Massage DVD will help you learn in a relaxed, calm, nonpressurized manner with excellent examples for healthy sexual functioning.

Do Not Use Questionable Accessories:

The sexual accessories market is full of rip offs that are cheap and even harmful to the body in the long run. Make sure that you check out the ingredients of the oils and other creams that you use during sexual massage. There are several respectable and trustworthy companies that prepare these kinds of oils. Though a bit on the expensive side, it would be a very good idea to buy them, as they would do a world of good for your sexual and physical health.

These are some of the important tips that would be helpful in guiding you through erotic massage.

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